8 rules for dating my ex wife
Before you risk hurting your reputation at work, find out if this person is someone you'd want to spend weekends with. People either don't care, will think it's obnoxious or inappropriate, or will get jealous. Once you have a sense that this might have a future, talk to your partner and decide how and when you want to disclose your relationships to your colleagues.
If the rumor mill goes into high gear, that might be the right time.
It's called the Girl Code and she needs to respect it.
The number one rule of the Girl Code is to never date your close friends' exes, so I think this applies double if it's your sister. -- Girl Code Believer The Frisky: 30 things every woman should quit doing by 30 Dear Girl Code Believer: What's with all this "Girl Code" business? It's time to start living your life by a more mature philosophy and treating people with respect and making decisions based on individual situations rather than blindly following a "code" that never considers context.
I figured it has been 15 years, we are both grown adults now and, yes, part of me wanted him to see just how fabulous I turned out.
The Frisky: 20 things that make a man The problem is, Michael has also "friended" my sister, who was an 11-year-old ugly duckling when we dated in high school, but has definitely blossomed since then.
When I tell people about this situation, everyone thinks what she is doing is wrong. They say I shouldn't have a problem with it since I've been happily married for 13 years and that it was over a decade ago when we were teenagers. I understand you'd be hurt that your sister is dating your high school sweetheart, but I find it more difficult to understand how you'd be upset with any female close to you dating any ex of yours, regardless of when you dated him, how serious you were, what the breakup was like, and what your feelings for him are now.